Vanilla Is For Ice Cream: How To Make An Impact Online

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It’s better to do nothing than be vanilla on social media. Simply regurgitating industry news and age-old wisdom will make you invisible – not interesting. On the flip side, daring to voice an honest opinion will make people stop scrolling and start noticing.

I recently did a piece on internal recruiters. By looking at some of the comments, you’d think I went around their house on Christmas Day and pissed on the tree. But it wasn’t clickbait. I believed in it.

I didn’t shy away from the comments either. Vocalising your opinion and then deleting it after a fallout is even worse. There’s a benefit in being outspoken – so long as you keep your values intact.

Here’s why you should speak out on social media:

Stand for something

You can’t run a business if you’re scared of your own shadow. It’s the kind of thing clients will pick up on. And if they can’t value your opinion, you can’t build meaningful relationships. 

Similarly, if you’re starting a business purely to make yourself famous, talking shit about the market rather than making a difference to it, chances are it’ll fall flat. You’ll get people like me calling you out. 

Your business needs a purpose – besides trying to survive till next week. The CEOs who tend to get the most respect are recognised for their vision. They know how they’re going to achieve their goals and every word that leaves their mouth is ‘on brand’.

I want this industry to do well, which is why I celebrate those that can influence it. But don’t forget whatever it is that you stand for, don’t take yourself too seriously.

Don’t be a contrarian for sport

Personally, I’ve always felt that being contrary for its own sake makes any point of yours redundant. But trying to please everyone won’t work either. Being vanilla makes you just another one of the recruiters – so to stand out from the crowd, you have to strike a middle ground and know your audience. 

Everybody’s petrified of alienating a single lead from their CRM – God forbid they unsubscribe. But the thing is, people have thousands of hiring managers on their system and you’ll only ever deal with a hundred a year.

So, put content out for the hundred who are engaged with you. Maximise your business with them and consider any more as a bonus.

There’s no shame in honesty if it resonates. I’m not advising you to be antagonistic – but saying things that are a little left field draws eyes on social, so play about with your message. 

Remember, having fun gets your marketing done. As long as you’re voicing genuine values, you’ll get traction on your posts. 

I use social to communicate with business leaders that are interested in innovating in recruitment. As far as I’m concerned, anyone who’s upset about my thoughts on the industry is unlikely to sit within that audience.

But for those that do want to make a difference, I want to hear from you.


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September 23, 2024
This is Part 1 of three parts: Part 2: How to lead Multi-million pound business… Part 3: Keeping Momentum… People often ask me how to succeed in recruitment; how they can reach the golden horizon at the end of a £10m exit strategy. That’s everyone’s goal, though. The question I’m often asking in my head is: “Are they serious?” Most of the time a recruiter has parachuted into their business without the vaguest idea of how it should be managed. By the time they realise they’ve landed far from their target, they’re stuck in a lifestyle earner. And you know what? Most people are happy to have a lifestyle business. At least that’s what they tell themselves. I see a lot of bravery and potential that may be squandered for comfort. Personally, I’d rather leave a legacy. I’d rather build a huge company where my passion shines through. Deep down – whether you’re starting out on your own or have been active for a number of years – the same feelings will reside in you too. So join me for a new, three-part series on taking a lifestyle business much further than a cosy pay cheque. In part one, I’ll explain what I mean by this, and how you can prepare to leap over anything holding you back. Falling into the ‘settling down’ trap Ah, the rags-to-riches story… It holds sway over so many young recruiters. They’ve worked somewhere as top biller, and done well out of it. They’ve seen their boss trot happily to the bank, having secured tens of thousands in take-home pay each month. The problem? They have gumption, but are lacking the skills to be an entrepreneur straight out of the gate. I like their style, but fear for their leadership credentials. Let me hit you with a few stats – such as the fact that only 1% of owners leave their recruitment business with any meaningful financial gain. 50% of recruitment startups fall on their arse during their first year; 53% of those are in London. And finally, 67% of owners earn less than they did as top biller in their old firm. A knowledge gap tends to open up when a recruiter becomes enamoured with the idea of working for themselves. Unfortunately, they fall into it– the full cost of a desk, for example, is one of the things that gets buried in the momentum of their self-belief. Staff costs are more than basic pay. We’re talking hardware, rent, utilities, sick pay, holiday allowance… all the extra expenditure that typically ranges from £5,000-£8,000 a month. Rigour is another trait that goes missing. The majority of businesses I speak to don’t fully appreciate the value of a cash forecast. 11 out of 12 may not know when their VATs are due. They rely on an accountant or clued-up mate to handle their finances. Which isn’t good enough, right? BOOM – suddenly, plans for world domination have been held back. You’re trying to claw back money all of the time. Before you know it, you’re settling for a lifestyle business, not a legacy. How to break out and do more However, even if you have succumbed to the lifestyle trap, you are able to change. Like an alcoholic clearing his throat at an AA meeting, the first step to recovery is admitting you were wrong. My recent series on psychopathy in businessmay give you some tips for a fresh mindset. These articles speak about the importance of an unwavering focus on the culture you lead. Qualities such as strength, tenacity and perseverance will set you up to succeed – which may cut into more of your personal time than you’re used to. But that’s alright. If you reconcile yourself to doing more than ‘getting by’, your kids and partner will end up with an easier life in the long run. So my initial advice is to pluck up the courage to say, “I may need some help here.” Try to answer the following: What niche are you filling? The last thing the world needs is another all-comer recruitment firm that targets too many sectors at once? When’s the last time you upgraded your technology, to make processes or lead generation easier? How are you making your voice heard? And is it being taken seriously? Perhaps it’s time to rethink your marketing if not. What allows you to measure and forecast growth? Track invoice collection timelines, the number of interviews you lock down, or where staff are being held up internally; chances are you’ll be lacking a key metric. Defining your story so far is critical to changing its outcome. Imagine you’re a stranger – someone who’s never heard of your company. Convince yourself why the brand exists. Play devil’s advocate, and challenge old assumptions. Speak to other recruiters (the successful ones) and ask them to pitch their business to you. Listen to their story. Then distil your value in a similar, relatable package of qualities and specialisms. Like Mike Tyson said, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth.” When you know what’s coming, by having a support network and a full picture of your business, you’ll take fewer punches. That’s what we do within my community of recruitment leaders – we share ideas and help one another achieve our goals. I can show you a way into the legacy you deserve. Look out for my second blog, which will tell you how a better form of leadership can be achieved! After all, there’s never been a sounder time than right now to earn big from the recruitment industry… 
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September 23, 2024
Everyone knows what an elevator pitch is. But does your recruitment business have one that’s meaningful? One that you’re proud of? One that anyone knows or uses? A lot of businesses talk about developing their ‘stories’. All try to define themselves through a commitment to the three core things: Clients Candidates Staff But these aren’t what makes you famous. Fame comes from the unique ‘what’, ‘why’ and/or ‘how’ of your business. You can’t expect any of the above without making a positive impact on your clients, candidates or employees. So, let’s break down what actually gives your elevator pitch enough impact to warrant attention, inside and out. Get industry recognition Want more clients? You need to start building your brand narrative. Ask yourself “what do we want businesses to choose us for?” Whether that’s: A unique product suite that is genuinely different A service to candidates that others haven’t considered, in order to deliver a unique talent pool A pricing model that shares the risk of talent acquisition These are the factors that draw in high-value clients, and they can be promoted through the messaging and marketing work you do in parallel. Once you’ve identified what you want to be famous for, the steps you need to get there will follow. Focus is the key to fame. It’s important to be bloody-minded as a business owner and vow not to step outside of your core market. Being niche is a killer part of the strategy towards getting known, so ignore the temptation to deviate. Every time you move away from your specialism, you’re breaking an invisible chain of the process – usually setting you back 2, 4 weeks or more. And the result? You’ll only be seen as a jack of all trades and master of none by clients. This will waterfall down to candidates and employees. #Dangerous! Establish internal values Once you’ve chosen what you want to be famous for (and ultimately specialise in), you need to decide why candidates or employees want to work with you. Whether that’s: Largest reach in terms of job opportunities Sexiest career path for the ambitious Best network in your industry, making scaling easy Once you’ve firmed up the ‘selling points’ of your rec business, develop a strategy to start applying it across the board. Just having a member of staff ping some posts out isn’t enough to get you known for anything. Publishing ‘jobs of the day’ or pictures of you and your team ‘bonding’ (getting drunk) isn’t a campaign. Establish a grown-up marketing strategy – one that incorporates the best methods to push your knowledge, ability, products and reach, but also your values and employee appeal. See how it’s done To be famous, you need to learn how to take your narrative and truly influence sentiment in your space. This is what will help you define and refine the 11-second pitch that willget you noticed. Be consistent in this. Your processes, message, tone of voice and positioning must all remain the same to build trust and rapport. If what you’re saying and doing don’t match up, why should anyone care? A great example is RDLC . We’re famous for giving great people great ideas and inspiration, and helping them innovate. It’s also synonymous with making running a business fun and rewarding.